Midnight
Not a sound from the pavement
Has the moon lost her memory
She is smiling alone
In the lamp light
The withered leaves collect at my feet
And the wind begins to moan

Memory
All alone in the moonlight
I can smile like the old days
I was beautiful, then I remember
The time I knew what happiness was
Let the memory live again

Every street lamp seems to beat
A fatalistic warning
Someone mutters and the street lamp gutters
And soon it will be morning

Daylight
I must wait for the sun rise
I must think for the new life
And I mustn't give in

When the dawn comes
Tonight will be a memory too
And the new day will begin

Burnt out ends of smoky days
The stale cold smell of morning
A street lamp dies
Another night is over
Another day is dawning

Touch me !
It's so easy to leave me
All alone with my memory
Of my days in the sun
If you touch me
You'll understand what happiness is
Look, a new day has began

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Happy valentines day!!!haha

Feng moved her house last Monday, den today she sent me a photo of her building(block?). beautiful~ Oh,she makes me start missin Shanghai sO much!!!! Happy New YR,My Shanghai!

Pls don't be a passer By...

ever seem we start sms together we get closer
but happy time will never always there soon you and me start to slow down our sms speed
soon our sms to each other is lesser and lesser each daynow not even one
i don't know what to do
all i can do is sit and wait
crying painfully in heart
and in the end we are another stranger
haizz i dislike this story with bad ending but i have to face it didn't i? haiz, story didn't last long always, my story is always a failure i didn't know what to do either nothing gonna cure my heart or emotion i just a girl that make people like new things and then when not new anymore they will just leave me quietly..

when i know one day it will be like that
i perfer to let go and run away from it
because i have no courage to face it, save it or hold on to it
i just a nobody to somebody

when i ask myself did i regret to know you? and my ans is No because the colours you gave me was so treasure by me
but i know someday it will gone
that my fear and worry haiz

Please be the one that stay and not a passer by..
-XiangLin

Wild Views
[ Some people had to say it. ]

1.. My wife dresses to kill. She cooks the same way. --- Henny Youngman

2.. My wife and I were happy for twenty years. Then we met. --Rodney Dangerfield

3.. A good wife always forgives her husband when she's wrong.

4.. I was married by a judge. I should have asked for a jury. ---George Burns

5.. What's the difference between a boyfriend and a husband? About 30 pounds. --- Cindy Garner

6.. I bought my wife a new car. She called and said, "There was water in the carburetor." I said, "Where's the car?" She said, "In the lake." ---Henny Youngman

7.. Never go to bed mad. Stay up and fight. --- Phyllis Diller

8.. The secret of a happy marriage remains a secret. --- Henny Youngman

9.. People are always asking couples whose marriages have endured at least a quarter of a century for their secret for success. Actually, it is no secret at all.

10.. I am a forgiving woman. Long ago, I forgave my husband for not being Paul Newman. --- Erma Bombeck

11.. At the cocktail party, one woman said to another, "Aren't you wearing your wedding ring on the wrong finger?" The other replied "Yes, I am, I married the wrong man."

12.. After a quarrel, a wife said to her husband, "You know, I was a fool when I married you." The husband replied, "Yes, dear, but I was in love and didn't notice."

13.. When a man steals your wife, there is no better revenge than to let him keep her.

14.. I haven't spoken to my wife in 18 months - I don't like to interrupt her.

15.. My girlfriend told me I should be more affectionate. So I got two girlfriends.

16.. A man said his credit card was stolen but he decided not to report it because the thief was spending less than his wife did.

17.. Women will never be equal to men until they can walk down the Street with a bald head and a beer gut, and still think they are beautiful.

• I have Learned...
  [Life teaches you alot. Here are few that it taught me.]
  
  
• I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.
  
• I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.
  
• I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.
  
• I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.
  
• I've learned that it's not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.
  
• I've learned that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you'd better know something.
  
• I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do.
  
• I've learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.
  
• I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
  
• I've learned that you can keep going long after you can't.
  
• I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
  
• I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.
  
• I've learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.
  
• I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.
  
• I've learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score.
  
• I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.
  
• I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up
  
• I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
  
• I've learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance.Same goes for true love.
  
• I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
  
• I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.
  
• I've learned that your family won't always be there for you.It may seem funny, but people you aren't related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren't biological.
  
• I've learned that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
  
• I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you are to learn to forgive yourself.
  
• I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.
  
• I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.
  
• I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.
  
• I've learned that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.
  
• I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.
  
• I've learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.
  
• I've learned that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.
  
• I've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.
  
• I've learned that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.
  
• I've learned that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.
  
• I've learned that the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.
  
• I've learned that it's hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe
  

I lOv3 YOu,MuM!!!

Mother's Love
By Nora M. Mulligan

"Mother," she said, looking down at the older woman who sat in the wheelchair. She ignored the other residents of the nursing home around them. "Mother, I know now. I understand."

The woman looked up and smiled at her. "Sonya, it's always so good to see you," she said.

"Why didn't you tell me what you were doing?" asked Sonya. She dropped into a chair beside the wheelchair, so that she and her mother could be on the same level. "All these years, and you never told me."

"I don't know what you're talking about," said the older woman. "How is your job going? Were you promoted, as you wanted to be?"

"I don't want to talk about my job. I want to talk to you about what you've done to make me successful."

"I didn't do anything. You've done it all. All the education, all the hard work--"

"No!" Sonya stood up again, unable to keep still. "You've been doing it all! When I was in high school and I said I needed help with the higher level math courses, because I couldn't figure any of it out, you said I shouldn't worry."

"You did fine," said her mother.

"Yes! Because you gave me your math ability! After that, you couldn't even balance your checkbook, remember?"

She shrugged. "When people get older, they start to slow down."

"You had a graduate degree in mathematics. You were a brilliant teacher. But after I started doing well in high school math, you lost all your abilities. Tell me it was a coincidence!"

"Darling, you're upset. Probably too much stress."

"No! No! I can't stand taking from you anymore! I never wanted to go to grad school for that MBA. I never had the ambition. But you did. You had more ambition than ten women! Until I needed it, and then--then suddenly I burned with the desire to prove myself and you--you gave up. That's when you started working at the supermarket."

"I wanted a lower stress job."

"I told you I was lonely but I thought I would never find anyone who would want to marry me, and then suddenly Bob turned into the most committed man I could ever imagine, and Dad suddenly lost interest in you and wandered off with that stupid woman across the street."

"Now surely you're not saying I'm responsible for your father's failings, are you?" asked her mother, smiling weakly.

"I'm saying you gave up your own desirability, to give it to me! At tremendous cost to you! But that wasn't all, either, was it?"

"Sonya, you really shouldn't get yourself worked up this way. It can't be good for you."

"And then," Sonya continued, ignoring the older woman, "when I needed that extra energy to do all the work I had to do in my first executive position, suddenly I had the energy I needed, and you could barely drag yourself out of bed in the morning!"

"I just wanted to see you succeed."

"Why?" Sonya dropped down on her knees in front of her mother's wheelchair, clutching her mother's frail hands. "Why did you do all this to yourself? Why? I'm not worth it, Mom! No success I've had in my life is worth what you've done to yourself, for me!"

"Oh," said her mother, stroking Sonya's hair, "you're wrong about that. Everything I did, everything I gave up, was worth it because of you, of what you've made of yourself."

"Mom, Mom, please, I'm begging you, take it back. I don't want my success on these terms! I don't want to see you grow more and more frail, more and more helpless, just so that I can grow stronger and richer and more famous!"

"What's holding you back now?" asked her mother. "Why didn't you get the promotion?"

"I'm not going to tell you! Aren't you listening to me? I don't want you to do more to yourself for me!"

Her mother looked down at her for a few seconds, and then nodded. "Ah, yes, I see. I understand, dear. You're almost there, aren't you? You just need a little more, just a tad more strength, but it's all right. You're going to get it, don't worry."

Sonya raised her head, horrified. "No, Mom! I told you, I don't want it! Don't - whatever you're going to do, don't do it!"

Her mother's head snapped backwards, and her eyes rolled in her head. Sonya, horrified, clutched at her mother's wrist. The pulse was barely discernible. Sonya screamed, and the personnel at the nursing home rushed toward them.

But before they arrived, her mother's eyes opened for a second, and for the last time, Sonya saw the intelligence she always remembered in her mother. "Have a daughter," her mother breathed. "Do it for her."

Tolerate yOu,and protecet..

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