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Tuesday, February 08, 2005
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Move Ahead.
Words Women Use
[ A collection of real meanings of the words ]
True meanings of the words Women use
FINE
This is the word women use to end an argument when they feel they are right and you need to shut up. Never use "fine" to describe how a woman looks - This will cause you to have one of those arguments.
FIVE MINUTES
This is half an hour. It is equivalent to the five minutes that your football game is going to last before you take out the trash, so it's an even trade.
NOTHING
This means "something," and you should be on your toes. "Nothing" is usually used to describe the feeling a woman has of wanting to turn you inside out, upside down, and backwards. "Nothing" usually signifies an argument that will last "Five Minutes" and end with "Fine"
GO AHEAD (With Raised Eyebrows! )
This is a dare. One that will result in a woman getting upset over "Nothing" and will end with the word "Fine"
GO AHEAD (Normal Eyebrows)
This means "I give up" or "do what you want because I don't care" You will get a "Raised Eyebrow Go Ahead" in just a few minutes, followed by "Nothing" and "Fine" and she will talk to you in about "Five Minutes" when she cools off.
LOUD SIGH
This is not actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A "Loud Sigh" means she thinks you are an idiot at that moment, and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you over "Nothing"
SOFT SIGH
Again, not a word, but a non-verbal statement. "Soft Sighs" mean that she is content. Your best bet is to not move or breathe, and she will stay content.
THAT'S OKAY
This is one of the most dangerous statements that a woman can make to a man. "That's Okay" means that she wants to think long and hard before paying you back for whatever it is that you have done. "That's Okay" is often used with the word "Fine" and in conjunction with a "Raised Eyebrow."
GO AHEAD!
At some point in the near future, you are going to be in some mighty big trouble.
PLEASE DO
This is not a statement, it is an offer. A woman is giving you the chance to come up with whatever excuse or reason you have for doing whatever it is that you have done. You have a fair chance with the truth, so be careful and you shouldn't get a "That's Okay"
THANKS
A woman is thanking you. Do not! faint. Just say you're welcome.
THANKS A LOT
This is much different from "Thanks." A woman will say, "Thanks A Lot" when she is really ticked off at you. It signifies that you have offended her in some callous way, and will be followed by the "Loud Sigh." Be careful not to ask what is wrong after the "Loud Sigh," as she will only tell you "Nothing
Just for today, Lord
I will live through the next 12 hours and not try to tackle all of life's problems at once.
I will improve my mind. I will learn something useful. I will learn something that requires effort, thought, and concentration.
I will be agreeable. I will look my best, speak in well-modulated voice, be courteous and considerate.
I will not find fault with friend, relative or colleague. I will not try to change or improve anyone other than myself.
I will have a program. I might not follow it exactly, but I will have it. I will save myself from two enemies, hurry and indecision.
I will do a good deed and keep it secret. If anyone finds out, it won't count.
I will do two things I don't want to do, just for exercise.
I will believe in myself. I will give my best to the world and feel confident that the world will give its best to me.
I will live through the next 12 hours and not try to tackle all of life's problems at once.
I will improve my mind. I will learn something useful. I will learn something that requires effort, thought, and concentration.
I will be agreeable. I will look my best, speak in well-modulated voice, be courteous and considerate.
I will not find fault with friend, relative or colleague. I will not try to change or improve anyone other than myself.
I will have a program. I might not follow it exactly, but I will have it. I will save myself from two enemies, hurry and indecision.
I will do a good deed and keep it secret. If anyone finds out, it won't count.
I will do two things I don't want to do, just for exercise.
I will believe in myself. I will give my best to the world and feel confident that the world will give its best to me.
Monday, February 07, 2005
We all have bad days, or weeks, or even months. We all feel overwhelmed at times. Things usually get better. Sometimes that's hard to remember when you're down. But stress, depression, and even suicide happen in the lives of people young and old.
Problems get people down. We feel tense, fearful, or angry because things are changing—they seem out of control. It's hard to manage. More than 2,000 Minnesota junior and senior high school students were asked how they handle serious problems in their lives. Can you guess what they said? They either try to handle the problem themselves or talk to their friends. It's important to think about how to help yourself as well as a friend who comes to you.
How People React To Stress & Problems
Failure on a test, a fight with a friend, an argument with a parent, or a put-down by a teacher can be upsetting. Many things that cause problems are beyond our control: parents divorcing, a family moving away, the death of someone close to us, or family financial problems. We all know someone who has broken up with a boyfriend or girlfriend, feared pregnancy, gotten in trouble with the law, or felt utterly deserted and alone.
There are three basic ways of reacting to the problem:
You can get angry - scream, shout, throw things, start a fight, or go on a rampage.
You can withdraw - take a drink, shut up in a room, take a pill, daydream, stop talking to everyone.
You can take charge - think out the problem, try to find a solution, ask for help, or work for change.
Unhealthy Ways To React To Problems
Aggression and anger get attention. Striking out at whomever seems responsible for the problem brings temporary relief. But aggressive actions, like drinking too much, driving recklessly, swearing at people, and breaking up things, can cause trouble in the long run. They don't usually solve the problem.
Withdrawal can also be destructive.
It's normal to react, “Just leave me alone!” But if it goes on for a long time, we are without what we need most—sharing, understanding, and help. Alone with a problem, we feel like no one cares. The depression and anger become worse, and we begin to make bad choices instead of healthy ones.
Healthy Ways To React To Problems
When your stomach churns, your head aches, and fear creeps through your insides, your mind and body are reacting to stress. There are a number of things you can do, such as:
talk to someone you trust
share what is bothering you
listen to music and relax
get some physical exercise
do something that normally gives you pleasure
give yourself a chance to think
These are first-aid actions. They don't solve the problem, but you can blow off some steam. Once that's done, it's a good idea to get in touch with someone you trust and respect. This could be a friend, a friend's parent, a coach, or someone you work with. Go have a good talk; lay out the problem and try to figure out some ways to solve it.
Warning Signs Of Trouble
Be aware of real trouble signs. Any one of these alone, lasting only a short time, is normal. But if you know a friend with several of these problems lasting more than a couple of weeks, they may be nearing a crisis. They need help. The warning signs can include:
avoiding friends, activities, school, social events
totally unable to think of anything but the problem
unexpected outbursts of anger or crying
unable to sleep; always feeling exhausted, irritated
unable to eat; or eating and vomiting
escaping by sleeping or daydreaming all the time
severe behavior change - quiet person becoming wild or active
person becoming withdrawn
excessive use of drugs or alcohol.
Problems get people down. We feel tense, fearful, or angry because things are changing—they seem out of control. It's hard to manage. More than 2,000 Minnesota junior and senior high school students were asked how they handle serious problems in their lives. Can you guess what they said? They either try to handle the problem themselves or talk to their friends. It's important to think about how to help yourself as well as a friend who comes to you.
How People React To Stress & Problems
Failure on a test, a fight with a friend, an argument with a parent, or a put-down by a teacher can be upsetting. Many things that cause problems are beyond our control: parents divorcing, a family moving away, the death of someone close to us, or family financial problems. We all know someone who has broken up with a boyfriend or girlfriend, feared pregnancy, gotten in trouble with the law, or felt utterly deserted and alone.
There are three basic ways of reacting to the problem:
You can get angry - scream, shout, throw things, start a fight, or go on a rampage.
You can withdraw - take a drink, shut up in a room, take a pill, daydream, stop talking to everyone.
You can take charge - think out the problem, try to find a solution, ask for help, or work for change.
Unhealthy Ways To React To Problems
Aggression and anger get attention. Striking out at whomever seems responsible for the problem brings temporary relief. But aggressive actions, like drinking too much, driving recklessly, swearing at people, and breaking up things, can cause trouble in the long run. They don't usually solve the problem.
Withdrawal can also be destructive.
It's normal to react, “Just leave me alone!” But if it goes on for a long time, we are without what we need most—sharing, understanding, and help. Alone with a problem, we feel like no one cares. The depression and anger become worse, and we begin to make bad choices instead of healthy ones.
Healthy Ways To React To Problems
When your stomach churns, your head aches, and fear creeps through your insides, your mind and body are reacting to stress. There are a number of things you can do, such as:
talk to someone you trust
share what is bothering you
listen to music and relax
get some physical exercise
do something that normally gives you pleasure
give yourself a chance to think
These are first-aid actions. They don't solve the problem, but you can blow off some steam. Once that's done, it's a good idea to get in touch with someone you trust and respect. This could be a friend, a friend's parent, a coach, or someone you work with. Go have a good talk; lay out the problem and try to figure out some ways to solve it.
Warning Signs Of Trouble
Be aware of real trouble signs. Any one of these alone, lasting only a short time, is normal. But if you know a friend with several of these problems lasting more than a couple of weeks, they may be nearing a crisis. They need help. The warning signs can include:
avoiding friends, activities, school, social events
totally unable to think of anything but the problem
unexpected outbursts of anger or crying
unable to sleep; always feeling exhausted, irritated
unable to eat; or eating and vomiting
escaping by sleeping or daydreaming all the time
severe behavior change - quiet person becoming wild or active
person becoming withdrawn
excessive use of drugs or alcohol.
Most of us feel quite anxious when making big changes in our lives. We're afraid we'll make a mistake that we'll later regret. I've found that taking small steps towards a decision works to alleviate this unnecessary anxiety. You'll probably find that as you take those small steps the decision becomes clearer, your resolve becomes stronger and the fear begins to lessen. In this way, intuition can guide you, small step by small step.
During times of crisis it often feels like everything is going wrong, but that's seldom true. Staying focused on what makes you feel bad will only worsen a difficult situation. Pay attention to what is working. Perhaps a friend called to cheer you up, or your child got off to school this morning without a major tantrum, or you had a really nice lunch with a colleague. Find those precious slivers of appreciation in each day.
This is not the time to think catastrophic thoughts about your future. Make a conscious attempt to shift the focus from any pessimistic thoughts. Adopt a short-term mindset for now. Try saying things to yourself like, "I know I'll get through this," "What could I do today to make things easier?" "I am open and receptive to new ideas about how to improve my situation," "I've gotten through tough times before," and, "Something good will come of this."
Use a journal to write down — with as much detail as you need — exactly what's causing the anxiety and why. Then, shift your focus to the immediate future. Consider what outcome would best solve your problem and brainstorm five ways to achieve that end.
During times of crisis it often feels like everything is going wrong, but that's seldom true. Staying focused on what makes you feel bad will only worsen a difficult situation. Pay attention to what is working. Perhaps a friend called to cheer you up, or your child got off to school this morning without a major tantrum, or you had a really nice lunch with a colleague. Find those precious slivers of appreciation in each day.
This is not the time to think catastrophic thoughts about your future. Make a conscious attempt to shift the focus from any pessimistic thoughts. Adopt a short-term mindset for now. Try saying things to yourself like, "I know I'll get through this," "What could I do today to make things easier?" "I am open and receptive to new ideas about how to improve my situation," "I've gotten through tough times before," and, "Something good will come of this."
Use a journal to write down — with as much detail as you need — exactly what's causing the anxiety and why. Then, shift your focus to the immediate future. Consider what outcome would best solve your problem and brainstorm five ways to achieve that end.
There are only two things to worry about:
Either you are well or you are sick.
If you are well, then there is nothing to worry about;But if you are sick, there are two things to worry about:Either you will get well, or you will die.
If you get well, there is nothing to worry about;If you die, there are only two things to worry about:Either you will go to Heaven or Hell.
If you go to Heaven, there is nothing to worry about;But if you go to Hell, you'll beso busy shaking hands with friends.You won't have time to worry!!!
Either you are well or you are sick.
If you are well, then there is nothing to worry about;But if you are sick, there are two things to worry about:Either you will get well, or you will die.
If you get well, there is nothing to worry about;If you die, there are only two things to worry about:Either you will go to Heaven or Hell.
If you go to Heaven, there is nothing to worry about;But if you go to Hell, you'll beso busy shaking hands with friends.You won't have time to worry!!!
Sunday, February 06, 2005
JUST FOR UR LAUGHTER
In the beginning, God created earth and rested.
Then God created man and rested.
Then God created woman. Since then, neither God nor man has rested.
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If your dog is barking at the back door and your wife is yelling at the front door, who do you let in first? The Dog of course...at least he'll shut up after you let him in!
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A man placed some flowers on the grave of his dearly departed mother and started back toward his car when his attention was diverted to another man kneeling at a grave. The man seemed to be praying with profound intensityand kept repeating, "Why did you have to die? Why did you have to die?" The first man approached him and said, "Sir, I don't wish to interfere with your private grief, but this demonstration of pain is more than I've ever seen before. For whom do you mourn so deeply? A child? A parent?" Themourner took a moment to collect himself, then replied, "My wife's first husband."
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Married life is very frustrating.In the first year of marriage, the man speaks and the woman listens.In the second year, the woman speaks and the man listens.In the third year, they both speak and the neighbors listen.
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A couple came upon a wishing well. The husband leaned over, made a wish and threw in a penny.The wife decided to make a wish,too. But she leaned over too much, fell into the well, and drowned. The husband was stunned for a while but then smiled "It really works!"
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A man said his credit card was stolen but he decided not to report it because the thief was spending less than his wife did.
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-First Guy (proudly): "My wife's an angel!"
Second Guy: "You're lucky, mine's still alive."
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A couple was having a discussion about family finances. Finally the husband exploded, "If it weren't for my money, the house wouldn't be here!" The wife replied, "My dear, if it weren't for your money, I wouldn't be here."
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Before marriage, a man yearns for the woman he loves. After marriage, the "y" becomes silent.
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A little boy asked his father, "Daddy, how much does it cost to get married?" And the father replied, "I don't know, son, I'm still paying for it."
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Women are unpredictable. Before marriage, she expects a man, after marriage she suspects him, and after death she respects him.
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There was this guy who told his woman that he loved her so much that he would go thru hell for her. They got married - and now he is going thru hell.
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A man inserted an 'ad' in the classifieds : " Wife wanted".Next day, he received a hundred letters. They all said the same thing : "You can have mine."
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When a man opens the door of his car for his wife, you can be sure of one thing: either the car is new or the wife is.......
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A man received a letter from some kidnappers. The letter said, "If you don't promise to send us $100,000, we promise you we will kidnap your wife."The poor man wrote back, " I am afraid I can't keep my promise but I hope you will keep yours."
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"What's the matter, you look depressed."
"I'm having trouble with my wife.""What happened?"
"She said she wasn't going to speak to me for 30 days."
"But that ought to make you happy."
"It did, but today is the last day."
In the beginning, God created earth and rested.
Then God created man and rested.
Then God created woman. Since then, neither God nor man has rested.
--------------------------------------------
If your dog is barking at the back door and your wife is yelling at the front door, who do you let in first? The Dog of course...at least he'll shut up after you let him in!
--------------------------------------------
A man placed some flowers on the grave of his dearly departed mother and started back toward his car when his attention was diverted to another man kneeling at a grave. The man seemed to be praying with profound intensityand kept repeating, "Why did you have to die? Why did you have to die?" The first man approached him and said, "Sir, I don't wish to interfere with your private grief, but this demonstration of pain is more than I've ever seen before. For whom do you mourn so deeply? A child? A parent?" Themourner took a moment to collect himself, then replied, "My wife's first husband."
--------------------------------------------
Married life is very frustrating.In the first year of marriage, the man speaks and the woman listens.In the second year, the woman speaks and the man listens.In the third year, they both speak and the neighbors listen.
--------------------------------------------
A couple came upon a wishing well. The husband leaned over, made a wish and threw in a penny.The wife decided to make a wish,too. But she leaned over too much, fell into the well, and drowned. The husband was stunned for a while but then smiled "It really works!"
--------------------------------------------
A man said his credit card was stolen but he decided not to report it because the thief was spending less than his wife did.
-------------------------------------------
-First Guy (proudly): "My wife's an angel!"
Second Guy: "You're lucky, mine's still alive."
-------------------------------------------
A couple was having a discussion about family finances. Finally the husband exploded, "If it weren't for my money, the house wouldn't be here!" The wife replied, "My dear, if it weren't for your money, I wouldn't be here."
--------------------------------------------
Before marriage, a man yearns for the woman he loves. After marriage, the "y" becomes silent.
--------------------------------------------
A little boy asked his father, "Daddy, how much does it cost to get married?" And the father replied, "I don't know, son, I'm still paying for it."
--------------------------------------------
Women are unpredictable. Before marriage, she expects a man, after marriage she suspects him, and after death she respects him.
-------------------------------------------
There was this guy who told his woman that he loved her so much that he would go thru hell for her. They got married - and now he is going thru hell.
--------------------------------------------
A man inserted an 'ad' in the classifieds : " Wife wanted".Next day, he received a hundred letters. They all said the same thing : "You can have mine."
-------------------------------------------
When a man opens the door of his car for his wife, you can be sure of one thing: either the car is new or the wife is.......
--------------------------------------------
A man received a letter from some kidnappers. The letter said, "If you don't promise to send us $100,000, we promise you we will kidnap your wife."The poor man wrote back, " I am afraid I can't keep my promise but I hope you will keep yours."
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"What's the matter, you look depressed."
"I'm having trouble with my wife.""What happened?"
"She said she wasn't going to speak to me for 30 days."
"But that ought to make you happy."
"It did, but today is the last day."
Saturday, February 05, 2005
IRTHDAY COLORS
@: ORANGE You are responsible for your own actions, and you know how to treat people. You always have goals to reach, and are competitive. When it comes to friendship, you find it hard to trust someone, but once you find the right friend, you trust them for ever.
XIAOTING: YELLOW You are sweet and innocent. Trusted by many people, and have a strong leadership towards relationships. You make good decision and make the right choice at the right time. And always dreaming of romantic relationship.
JASLINE: SILVER You are imaginative and shy, but you like trying new things. You like to challenge yourself. You learn things easily, and like "Hard to get". Your love life is normally hard and confusing.
XUETING: MAROON You are intelligent, and know what's right. You like to take things go your way, which can sometimes cause trouble or not thinking about other people's feelings. But you are patient when it comes to love... Once you get a hold of the right person, it's hard for you to find a better love.
MEICHEN: MAROON You are intelligent, and know what's right. You like to take things go your way, which can sometimes cause trouble or not thinking about other people's feelings. But you are patient when it comes to love... Once you get a hold of the right person, it's hard for you to find a better love.
AGARES: MAROON You are intelligent, and know what's right. You like to take things go your way, which can sometimes cause trouble or not thinking about other people's feelings. But you are patient when it comes to love... Once you get a hold of the right person, it's hard for you to find a better love.
(Oh,~ surprise,three of you got same color leh! ic ic...hehe =])
DENISE: WHITE You dream and have goals in your life. You get jealous easily and you don't react to things easily. You are different and sometimes thought highly by others.
JINGRONG: NAVY You are attractive, and love your life. You have a strong feeling towards everything. And very easily distracted. Once you get angry at someone, it's hard for you to forgive them.
ME: BLUE You have low self-esteem, and very picky. You are artistic and like to fall in love, but you let your love pass by, by loving with your mind, not your heart.
BABA: ORANGE You are responsible for your own actions, and you know how to treat people. You always have goals to reach, and are competitive. When it comes to friendship, you find it hard to trust someone, but once you find the right friend, you trust them for ever.
MAMA: LIME You are calm, but easily stressed out. You get jealous easily, and complain over little things. You can't get stuck into one thing, but you have a capable personality for everyone to trust you and like you.
XIAOFENG: GREY You are attractive, and active. You never hide your feelings, and express everything that's inside. But can be selfish at times. You want to be noticed, and don't like to be treated unequally. You can brighten up people's day. You know what to say at the right time, and you have a good sense of humor.
TINGTING: PINK You are always trying your best in everything, and like to help and care for other people. But you are not easily satisfied. You have negative thoughts, and you look for romantic love like in a fairytale.
COUSIN: RED Cute and lovable type, you are picky but always in love ...and liked to be loved. Fresh and cheerful, but can be "moody" at times. Capable with people, nice, soft, and that can love you for the way you are. Likes people that are easy to talk to, and can make you feel comfortable.
QI: PURPLE You are mysterious, never selfish and get interested in things easily. Your day can be sad or happy depending on your mood. You are popular between friends but you can act stupid at times, and forget things easily. You go for person that's trustworthy.
@: ORANGE You are responsible for your own actions, and you know how to treat people. You always have goals to reach, and are competitive. When it comes to friendship, you find it hard to trust someone, but once you find the right friend, you trust them for ever.
XIAOTING: YELLOW You are sweet and innocent. Trusted by many people, and have a strong leadership towards relationships. You make good decision and make the right choice at the right time. And always dreaming of romantic relationship.
JASLINE: SILVER You are imaginative and shy, but you like trying new things. You like to challenge yourself. You learn things easily, and like "Hard to get". Your love life is normally hard and confusing.
XUETING: MAROON You are intelligent, and know what's right. You like to take things go your way, which can sometimes cause trouble or not thinking about other people's feelings. But you are patient when it comes to love... Once you get a hold of the right person, it's hard for you to find a better love.
MEICHEN: MAROON You are intelligent, and know what's right. You like to take things go your way, which can sometimes cause trouble or not thinking about other people's feelings. But you are patient when it comes to love... Once you get a hold of the right person, it's hard for you to find a better love.
AGARES: MAROON You are intelligent, and know what's right. You like to take things go your way, which can sometimes cause trouble or not thinking about other people's feelings. But you are patient when it comes to love... Once you get a hold of the right person, it's hard for you to find a better love.
(Oh,~ surprise,three of you got same color leh! ic ic...hehe =])
DENISE: WHITE You dream and have goals in your life. You get jealous easily and you don't react to things easily. You are different and sometimes thought highly by others.
JINGRONG: NAVY You are attractive, and love your life. You have a strong feeling towards everything. And very easily distracted. Once you get angry at someone, it's hard for you to forgive them.
ME: BLUE You have low self-esteem, and very picky. You are artistic and like to fall in love, but you let your love pass by, by loving with your mind, not your heart.
BABA: ORANGE You are responsible for your own actions, and you know how to treat people. You always have goals to reach, and are competitive. When it comes to friendship, you find it hard to trust someone, but once you find the right friend, you trust them for ever.
MAMA: LIME You are calm, but easily stressed out. You get jealous easily, and complain over little things. You can't get stuck into one thing, but you have a capable personality for everyone to trust you and like you.
XIAOFENG: GREY You are attractive, and active. You never hide your feelings, and express everything that's inside. But can be selfish at times. You want to be noticed, and don't like to be treated unequally. You can brighten up people's day. You know what to say at the right time, and you have a good sense of humor.
TINGTING: PINK You are always trying your best in everything, and like to help and care for other people. But you are not easily satisfied. You have negative thoughts, and you look for romantic love like in a fairytale.
COUSIN: RED Cute and lovable type, you are picky but always in love ...and liked to be loved. Fresh and cheerful, but can be "moody" at times. Capable with people, nice, soft, and that can love you for the way you are. Likes people that are easy to talk to, and can make you feel comfortable.
QI: PURPLE You are mysterious, never selfish and get interested in things easily. Your day can be sad or happy depending on your mood. You are popular between friends but you can act stupid at times, and forget things easily. You go for person that's trustworthy.
Friends:
If one day
If one day you feel like crying.
Call me.
I don't promise you that.I will make you laugh
But I can cry with you
If one day you want to run away -
Don't be afraid to call me.
I don't promise to ask you to stop,
But I can run with you.
If one day you don't want to listen to nobody;
Call me and.
I promise to be very quiet
But.If one day you call and there is no answer ...
Come fast to see me ...
Perhaps I need you...
If one day
If one day you feel like crying.
Call me.
I don't promise you that.I will make you laugh
But I can cry with you
If one day you want to run away -
Don't be afraid to call me.
I don't promise to ask you to stop,
But I can run with you.
If one day you don't want to listen to nobody;
Call me and.
I promise to be very quiet
But.If one day you call and there is no answer ...
Come fast to see me ...
Perhaps I need you...
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