Thursday, January 27, 2005

  • True happiness is not attained through self-gratification, but through fidelity to a worthy purpose.
  • You will never be happier than you expect. To change your happiness, change your expectation.
  • Hope is itself a species of happiness, and, perhaps, the chief happiness which this world affords.
  • Happiness is man's greatest aim in life. Tranquility and rationality are the cornerstones of happiness.
  • Happiness depends upon achievement of personally significant goals and leading a balanced life.
  • "Happiness is the ultimate realization that everything was, and is, exactly as it should be."
  • Realize that true happiness lies within you. Waste no time and effort searching for peace and contentment and joy in the world outside. Remember that there is no happiness in having or in getting, but only in giving. Reach out. Share. Smile. Hug. Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself.
  • Happiness is contagious...when you reflect happiness, then all others around you catch the happy bug and are happy, too.
  • Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.
  • Happiness is an inner state of well being. A state of well being enables you to profit from your highest: thoughts, wisdom, intelligence, common sense, emotions, health, and spiritual values in your life.
  • Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy.
  • A happy person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances, but rather a person with a certain set of attitudes.
  • Happiness is the meaning and the purpose of life, the whole aim and end of human existence.
  • There is a French proverb: To live happy, live hidden. Where can Brigitte Bardot hide?
  • Money can't buy you happiness, but it does bring you a more pleasant form of misery.
  • Happiness ain't a thing in itself--it's only a contrast with something that ain't pleasant.
  • Shared joy is a double joy; shared sorrow is half sorrow.
  • Happiness is the only sanction of life; where happiness fails, existence remains a mad and lamentable experiment.
  • I give thanks for the joy and happiness in life and trust that God does indeed want me to be happy.
    Happiness comes only from appreciating what you have right now. You can even be happy by appreciating your troubles because they are helping to build your character.
  • It is not easy to find happiness in ourselves and it is not possible to find it elsewhere.
  • Happiness is mostly a by-product of doing what makes us feel fulfilled.
  • Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, And the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared. This happy thought by Buddha
    Happiness is the only good. The time to be happy is now. The place to be happy is here. The way to be happy is to make others so.
  • Life can be divided into the horrible and miserable.This not-so-happy thought by Woody Allen in Annie Hall
  • There is work that is work and there is play that is play; there is play that is work and work that is play. And in only one of these lie happiness.
  • There is no cosmetic for beauty like happiness. This happy thought by the Countess of Blessington
    Happiness is not merely a life lived by accumulating moments of pleasure. On the contrary, happiness is a long lasting enduring enjoyment of life, it is being in love with living. It is your reward for achieving a good character and personal rational values in life. Some important values are a productive career, romance, friendship and hobbies.
  • By all means marry: If you get a good wife, you'll become happy; if you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher.This definition of happiness by Socrates.
    Happiness is not in having or being—it is in the doing.
  • Happiness is living in a state of freely choosing to create and exchange one's rational values with others.
  • But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads.
  • The greatest part of our happiness depends on our dispositions, not our circumstances.
  • Happiness is a thing to be practiced, like the violin.
  • Happiness... is not a destination: it is a manner of traveling. Happiness is not an end in itself. It is a by-product of working, playing, loving and living.

Wednesday, January 26, 2005

How is your self esteem?

  • The key to healthy self esteem is becoming aware of our personal strengths and accepting ourselves as worthy persons despite any real weaknesses we have.
  • This also means learning that low self esteem is partly self imposed regardless of original causes - we maintain our own low self esteem by misperceiving our basic worth relative to others.
  • This is because the more we criticize ourselves the worse we feel.
    Finding fault with everything around us is no more helpful except in providing a bit of immediate relief.
  • The good news is that we can change how we view ourselves - without changing our basic personalities.
  • We can also spend more time doing useful things and less time sitting around thinking about ourselves. This builds self esteem.
  • Talking to other people helps us see that we are not the only ones with problems. This means focusing on them, not dwelling on ourselves, a good diversion.
    Everyone has something they don't like about themselves or feels bad about no matter how hard it may be to see it in them.
  • So, there is nothing unique about us in this regard, hence we have every right to be as happy as anyone else.
  • Helping others and being a good listener is one way to develop a sense of being good at something and a greater sense of self worth.
  • Listening and being nice to others is one of the easiest things to change about ourselves, something everyone can do and it is one of the best ways of starting to feel better about ourselves.
  • The key point is to do things that get in the way of dwelling on ourselves - being busy gets us out of ourselves, especially if what we are doing gives us a sense of achievement.
Boost self-esteem tip #1: Think back to when you did something new for the first time. This free self esteem test is extremely quick and simple, just answer TRUE or FALSE to each question (if you cannot answer 100% TRUE then answer FALSE):
1. Other people are not better off or more fortunate than me
2. I accept myself as I am and am happy with myself
3. I enjoy socializing
4. I deserve love and respect
5. I feel valued and needed
6. I don't need others to tell me I have done a good job
7. Being myself is important
8. I make friends easily
9. I can accept criticism without feeling put down
10. I admit my mistakes openly
11. I never hide my true feelings
12. I always speak up for myself and put my views across
13. I am a happy, carefree person
14. I don't worry what others think of my views
15. I don't need others' approval to feel good
16. I don't feel guilty about doing or saying what I want

SELF-ESTEEM TEST RESULTS:Total number of TRUE answers you gave

15-16 YOU HAVE A HIGH LEVEL OF SELF ESTEEM !
12-14 NOT BAD BUT ROOM FOR YOU TO IMPROVE
8-11 LOW SELF ESTEEM - IT'S HOLDING YOU BACKBELOW 8 YOUR ESTEEM IS DRASTICALLY LOW

Tuesday, January 25, 2005

A girl asked a guy if he thought she was pretty,he said...NO.
She asked him if he would want to be with her forever....and he said no.
She asked him if he liked her ....he said no
She then asked him if she were to leave would he cry,and once again he replied with a no.
She had heard enough.
As she walked away, tears streaming down her face, the boy grabbed her arm and said....
You're not pretty, you're beautiful.
I dont want to be with you forever I NEED to be with you forever
.i DonT LikE YOU I LOVE YOU
And I wouldn't cry if you walked away...I'd die..

Bluff!!!
bUt it's niCe!
i think i surely choose 2 believe whateveR he said
if i love him with my heart.
IF when there is such a day realLy happen like this...
zAi shuO ba....

The Truth About Girls
1. When a girl says she's sad, but she isn't crying, it means she's crying in her heart.
2. When she ignores you after you've done something wrong, it's best to give her some time to cool down before touching her heart with anapology.
3. A girl can't find anything to hate about the guy she loves (which is why it is so hard for her to 'get over him' after the relationship's over.)
4. If a girl loves a guy, he will always be on her mind every minute of the day, even though she flirts with other guys.
5.When the guy she likes smiles and stares deep into her eyes, she will melt.
6. A girl likes to hear compliments, but usually is not sure how to react to them.
7. When a particular guy flirts with a girl veryoften, a girl would start thinking the guy likes her. So if you treat a girl just as a friend, go easy on the smiles and stare 'okie?
8. If you don't like a girl who likes you, break it to her gently.
9. If a girl starts avoiding you after you reject her, leave her alone for a while. If you still treat her as a friend, talk to her.
10. Girls enjoy talking about what they feel.Music, poetry, drawings and writing are ways of expressing themselves (which explains why most girls like writing journals).
11. Never tell a girl that she is useless in anyway.
12. Being too serious can turn a girl off.
13. When the guy she likes calls her for the first time, the girl may act uninterested during the call. But as soon as the phone is back on the hook, she will whoop with joy and immediately start telephoning her friends to spread the news.
14. A smile means a lot to a girl.
15. If you like a girl, try making friends with her first. Let her get to know you.
16. If a girl says she can't go out with you because she has to study, leave.
17. But if she still calls you or expect a call from you, stay.
18. Don't try to guess a girl's feelings. Ask her.
19. Hearing the words "I love you" is a great reassurance to a girl that she is needed.
20. After a girl falls in love with a guy, she'll wonder why she never noticed him before.
21. If you need tips on how to flirt with a girl,read romance stories .
22. When class pictures come out, a girl would first look at the girl next to her crush before actually looking at herself.
23. A girl's ex-crush will always be in her memory, but the guy she loves now stays in her heart. 24. Girls love having fun!
25. A simple 'Hi' can brighten a girl's day.
26. A girl's best friends usually know best what she is feeling and going through
27. Girls hate it when a guy pays attention to them just to get close to their 'prettier' friend.
28. Love means devotion, caring and happiness to a girl, in that order.
29. Some girls care about looks, some care about brains, but ALL girls want a guy who will love and care for them.
30. Girls want nothing more than to feel love

Monday, January 24, 2005

1.what made you happy this week ? Happy itself
2.what made you sad this week? im unhappy anymore..
3.are you contented with your life? Yeah...Half....
4.has someone/somebody make u happy lately? lastly means when?
5.what do you plan to do to him/her? show im v happy now..haha
6.how are you feeling at the moment? tired & confuse
7.what/who made you feel that way? she,he,them...hehe...and myself...
8.are you the type of person who easily gets hurt? haha...dunO...depend On who hurt me...
9. do you cry? won't shOw U!!!
10.have you ever been to a point in your life that you can say you got lost? alot.=p
11. the last movie you watched? Once upOn a time,i watched a Movie called sth i forgot name one...
12. with who n when?friends on when? friends
13. the last song you heard? 'Bu xiang shui'
14. the last thing you bought? total effect
15. the last place you went? Wason
16. the last food you ate ? Salad
17. the last thing you heard from your parents? "girl, what u learn abt today?" do u believe??OH,my!!haha
18. the last thing you said to your parents? "i learnt what teachers have to teach lo"
19. the last thing you said to one of yourfriends? bye
20. the last thing you read? comic
21. the last person you called? @
22. the last person who called you? papa
23. the last person you texted? u
24. the last person who texted you? mama
25. the last person who said you're handsome/pretty? eh....ehm.....emh.....
26. the last person who gave you a testimonial? Denise
27. the last person who messaged you? Jasline
28. the last person you're with? Janice
29. the last person you kissed goodnyt? i kiss AIR
30. the last person you kissed goodbye? eh... *pui
31. the last person you think of before goin to sleep? you
32. the last thing to do before goin to sleep?go toilet

Sunday, January 16, 2005

CANCEL MY HANDPHONE LINE...
MY MSN GOT SOME PROMBLE NO LONGER SIGN IN AGAIN...
APPLY A NEW HOTMAIL ALSO CANNOT USE...
IT SEEMS ALL WAYS OF IN TOUCH WITH THEM TO BE BROKEN OFF...
FATE!
MING ZHONG ZHU DING!
YOU KEEP EVERYTHING TO YOURSELF,LEAVING ME WONDERING HALF THE TIME WHAT'S GOING ON WITH YOU...
I'M TIRED FOR LONG...
I AM NOT READY FOR FOREVER...
NO what IF,
ONLY IF,
IF YOU DON'T CARE ME,LET ME LEAVE...

START THIS BLOG,BECASUE OF YOU.
I WANTED TO FINISH IT ONCE,WHEN U SAID U SELDOM READ BLOG...
BUT I CHERISHED...
PROCRASTINATING AND WAITING...

I HAVE DECIDED THAT I MUST FINISH WITH IT. . =]
*(^^,)+++
THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING U'VE DONE!
THANKS SO MUCH!!!!!
I LOVE YOU!!! REALLY!

Saturday, January 15, 2005

i cancel my handphone number.
nO longer use it...
sO don't waste Ur money to sms...=]
haha

Friday, January 14, 2005

*Guys should ALWAYS send the girl home.. Most of all GF...
*Guys should NEVER make a Girl WAIT...
*Guys should NEVER make empty promises.. The girl will NEVER forget that u NEVER keep ur promise....
*Guys should be MORE sensitive to a girl's feelings..
*Guys should NEVER neglect their GF just becoz of their buddies..
*Guys should ALWAYS BE THERE for their GF..
*Guys should NEVER LIE.. coz the Girls r SMART these days..
*Guys should ALWAYS be the BEST in everything...So that the Girl can learn from u.. Yet DUN be TOO Arrogant...
*Guys should be MORE Patient and Understanding when its the "time of the MOnth" for the Girls.. They tend to haf MOOD SwIngs...
*Guys should learn how to SHOW more AFFECTION to their Love ones..
*Guys should ALWAYS take the FIRST STep..
*Guys should MAKE DECISIONS... Not say " dunno lar.. or anithing larz.." Girls like guys who can make decisions.. whether is where to eat or go or do.. Bleahz~~
*Guys should Try to send their GF home from sch or work if they haf the time despite the distance.. Besides SG isn't very big.. *Guys should learn NOT to be toooo Messy... in the things they do..
*Guys should learn to call and sms their GF ani time of the day/nite.. Basically give their GF the sense of SECURITY.. tts wat girls want from most of their BF...
*Guys should try to let their GF know where and wat their doing all the time.. SO should their Girl..
*Guys should NEVER Flirt around too Much.. SG is too small...Everyone would know that ya a JErk.. Girls can gossip quite alot..
*Guys should learn to be more Passionate..
*Guys DO CRY.. they haf feelings too.. But dun CRY to Often...Coz its NOT very manly.. Besides ya be known as a WIMP.. *Guys should KNOW their GF likes and dislikes..
*Guys should know their GF contact NumberSSss by Heart...
*Guys should never give excuses like ` - SOrry I fell asleep.. ` - Sorry I was caught in a jam.. ` - Sorry my hp went Low.. ` - Opps.. I didn't know that.. ` - Oh i forgot...
*Guys should Never use phrases like - ya not angry r u? (when its OBVIOUSLY she is..) - I dun like it.. ( when u haven't even try ) - I dun like them ( when u haven't even met them )
*Guys should always TRY new things and learn to adapt..
*Guys should ALWAYS make a good impression on the Girl's Parents..
*Guys should be DARING to meet ani of their GF's friends, relatives.. blah blah...
*Guys should never make their GF to beg for them to do this or that..
*Guy should Learn to behave themselves at times..
*Guys should Never force their GF to do anithing they dun want..
*Guys should always FEEL like a girl when guys r wif their GF.. Girls like guys who can be their bestfriend too.. Understanding.. etc..
*Guys should always talk to their GF about their made-decisions.. and ask how to feel about it..
*Guys should NEVER always expect a GIRL to tell them WAT THEY DID WRONG.. when EVERYTHING was WRONG...
*Guys should NEVER be Ignorant!
*Guys should nv play his hf feelings as she really love u.
*Guys. when ur gf say i love u truly. they reali mean it..

什么时候你会发现你爱上了一个人呢?
什么时候,什么时候开始爱上一个人呢。
在看到他突然觉得心里寂静无声的时候
在远远看到他开始感觉心跳加速的时候,
在想要伸手碰触他脸的时候。开始变的小心敏感不顾一切,
开始变的神经兮兮一分钟拿 3 次手机看有没有他的短信,
开始学会感恩与期盼,
开始变的暴躁易怒却又满怀温柔。

他是独一无二的,在你而言。
你可以在一堆名字中轻易的点出他的名字,他的背影在人群中闪光。
在商店看到好看的衣服会想他适不适合,看到有女孩接近他会吃醋吃到不行。
开始想要为他做事情,又患得患失怕自己的心意付诸于空。

Thursday, January 13, 2005

know Eslyn,Shimei,Huixuan,Janice,Bernadette,Xiang Lin,Charmain,,Jia Xin,Joanne,PeiRong,Atikah,Nurul and Farhana these days....they're cute and friendly lol...some of us spent 3 hours chatting with each other during reCess......it should be nice moment,isn't it??...no squarrl,no fight,nO slience between us... got laughter almost whole hours...this situation is much better than i expected.....ist?ist?.but deep inside i just can heard my voice shouted to myself,go home, just go home..... i just want go home or walk around on the street alone....every morning reach sch i just start waiting for go home....
.........
haha.....im mad liao...
i MisS U...